How to grow

 SELF-IMPROVEMENT & SELF-LEARNING

 

(A person thnking about success)

Before moving further, we start with being self-contained. 

According to the Cambridge dictionary, the word "self-contained" means a self-contained person does not have a large number of relationships with other people or does not depend on others for support. 

Such individuals develop within themselves; they solve problems within themselves. They boost their confidence by themselves. They don't connect with others. They can adapt to any kind of environment.

They do not seek help and are always busy with themselves, continually updating their skills. 

It is not the condition of living alone. In the current time, most people live in the nuclear family, and there are flat systems in the metropolitan cities. The thinking of the people has changed. They want to use each other when they are in need. 

  

Therefore, most people want to be self-contained; they make decisions and grow in a nuclear family like a simple plant. 

What do you think we should do? Should we remain self-contained, or should we communicate with each other and make a fan following?

Villagers always think of leaving together as a community. In villages, conditions are separate from the green environments, working cultures. They used to work in a group and help each other. A very rare condition arises when they do not talk to others. 

In small cities, family sizes are big; mostly 7-10 or even more people live together, and they help each other. If one person helps by earning, then the other does another activity that reduces the burden on the working person. 

Moving towards the big cities, which are crowded and have hard living conditions. The people perform their jobs separately. They remain in self, believe in themselves, and they don't need help from others.

They are afraid because of their neighbors' behavior. 

 In my opinion, being self-contained in a single society is not a good job; people should live together, learn from each other.

To improve yourself and overcome the limitations of being self-contained, which is not always beneficial.

Few important facts 

1. Believe in yourself: You can think that you can do any task that others can do. Because the successful men in the world believed in themselves and became very successful, like Dhirubhai Ambani, Ratan Tata, etc. They kept on believing in them and later became successful in their lives.

      2. Self-study: In every aspect of life, we need to study to update ourselves; an updated knowledge system gives new thoughts and new ideas to solve a problem

3. Long-term Companion

 A friend or long-term companion can guide you in solving various conditions, such as financial, physical, and educational issues.

4. A good guide:  Make a good guide (guru) who can give you direction to work and think, and heal your grief.

How can we achieve success in life when we have no powerful background?

If we want to be successful in our lives, we should first read some inspirational stories that inspire us to change our thinking and give us motivation to perform better and grow faster in life. 

1. Rajanikant

Everybody is familiar with the superstar Rajinikanth. The real name of the actor is Shivaji Rao Gaikwad. He was born on 12th December 1950. He was born in a Marathi family in Karnataka. His mother was a homemaker, and his father was a constable. Before coming into the film industry, he performed many jobs, like coolie. After this job, he joined as a bus conductor in Bangalore.   His contribution is mostly to Tamil cinema. He performed in 170 films in Tamil, Bengali, Malayalam, Marathi, Kannada, Telugu & Hindi. He has a unique style and dialogue delivery. He has a big fan following from all linguistic groups. He received the prestigious Padma Vibhushan award for his contribution to cinema. 

His debut drama was Apporva Raganagal, Mani Ratnam's crime movie Thalapathi in 1991 gave him popularity. 

Rajinikanth began his film career with Apoorva Raagangal (1975), directed by K. Balachander.  The controversial film explored relationships between people with wide age differences and won three National Film Awards. He later appeared in Katha Sangama (1976) as a village ruffian. He played a pivotal role in Anthuleni Katha (1976) and Moondru Mudichu (1974). In Baalu Jenu (1977), he was the main antagonist. He played similar roles in Avargal (1977) and 16 Vayadhinile (1977). In 1977, he made his first-ever Telugu film. , Chilakamma Cheppindi, earning him the Filmfare award for Best Actor in  Telugu.

In 1983, Rajinikanth became a popular actor in South Indian cinema, starring in Telugu and Kannada films. He starred in his first Bollywood film, Andhaa Kaanoon, and later appeared in Naan Mahaan Alla, Meri Adalat, Gangvaa, and John Jani Janardhan. He won the Filmfare Award for Best Actor – Tamil in Nallavanuku Nallavan. Rajinikanth acted in commercially successful films in the second half of the 1980s, including Bloodstone and Rajadhi Raja. He also starred in Bollywood productions, including the first Indian film to feature live action and animation.

In 1978, Rajinikanth released 20 films across Tamil, Telugu, and Kannada. His first film was Shankar Salim Simon, co-starring with Vishnuvardhan in Kiladi Kittu. He later played the second lead in Annadammula Savaal and played an important role in the supernatural thriller Aayiram Jenmangal. Rajinikanth earned the sobriquet "Superstar" for his role in Bairavi, the first Tamil film to cast him as a solo hero. His next film, Ilamai Oonjal Aadukirathu, was a quadrangular love story directed by C. V. Sridhar. His next film, Vanakkatukuriya Kathaliye, had an introductory song, a trend that would continue with his later films. Mullum Malarum, released during this period, received critical acclaim and earned him his first Filmfare Award for Best Actor – Tamil nomination. Rajinikanth began playing Amitabh Bachhan's s roles in Tamil remakes of his films, including Amitabh Bachchan's roles in Shankar Salim Simon and Naan Vazhavaippen. He starred in eleven Tamil remakes of Amitabh Bachchan films and in the remakes of Salim-Javed films. His career was turned around with Billa, a remake of the Bollywood blockbuster Don, and Johnny, earning him his third nomination for the Filmfare Award for Best Actor – Tamil.

Rajinikanth, a Tamil actor, began his career with Panakkaran (1990), a remake of Amitabh Bachchan's 1981 film Laawaris. He earned eight nominations for the Filmfare Award for Best Actor – Tamil and went on to star in more Hindi films. His next two Tamil films, Athisaya Piravi and Dharmadorai (1991), did above-average business at the box office. Rajinikanth also appeared in remakes of films from other languages, mostly from Hindi and Telugu.

In 1995, he joined Suresh Krishna for Baashha, which became an industry record. He made a cameo in Peddarayudu for Mohan Babu and helped him obtain remake rights. In 1998, he acted in Aatank Hi Aatank with Aamir Khan,, his last Hindi film in a major role till date. His film Muttu became the first Tamil film to be dubbed into Japanese, grossing a record US$1.6 million in Japan in 1998.

Rajinikanth entered Bengali cinema through Bhagya Debta and 1997's Arunanachalam. Padayappa (1999) was his last film of the millennium and earned him fifteen nominations for the Filmfare Award for Best Actor – Tamil. After a brief pause, Rajinikanth starred in Baba in 2002, which was released with much fanfare and hype.

Two years later, he signed up for P. Vasu's Chandramukhi(2005), a remake of the Malayalam film Manichitrathazhu. Chandramukhi was highly successful at the box office and set the record of being the longest-running Tamil film. Following Chandramukhi's release, AVM Productions was set to produce a film directed by Shankar starring Rajinikanth, titled Sivaji.

In 2002, Rajinikanth protested the Karnataka government's decision not to release Kaveri River water into Tamil Nadu and pledged to contribute $120,000 to a plan to interlink Indian rivers. He met with Indian Prime Minister Atal Bihari Vajpayee and experts to support the project. In 2008, Rajinikanth participated in a hunger strike against Karnataka's stance on the Hogenakkal Falls water dispute, leading to a ban on him and his film Kuselan. The ban was lifted after Rajinikanth apologized and thanked the Karnataka government. His support for fellow actor Ajith Kumar also sparked controversy. In 2020, Rajinikanth quoted a 2017 article from Outlook, which was criticized by supporters of Periyar E. V. Ramasamy.